do you ever post new stuff or just reblog yourself?
Hey Grumpy Bum
Wanna know some interesting things?
The house I was supposed to be moving into is so bad (and for fear of ruining my belongings with dust and dying from asbestosis) I have moved in with my manfriend.
I am currently in the process of moving nearly 24 years worth of belongings a 40 minute drive away, with a 1999 3 door clio. (called Tina) So my life is pretty much in boxes. My ABS sensor fell off last week driving to work, it cost £158. I am currently working a job I hate for good 36 hour weeks, I am also currently suffering allergys towards the cleaning products. (so they told me quite agressively that I can’t work there incase my skin falls off into the food) Whilst balancing this I am also trying to find a new job closer to my new home. Ohhh not to mention, I’ve been suffering with tonsilitis and have had reoccuring tonsil stones for the past month.
So yeah, I would absolutely love to be posting new stuff but unfortunately life isn’t always a piece of cake.
Why am I telling you this? Moral of the story- Don’t give people a hard time if you have absolutely no idea what shit they are going through.
I haven’t posted anything new in around a month, but in that time I have got 117 new followers, and over 4000 notes, and I am eternally grateful for everything ♥
Would you ever do more pictures like your recent exhibitionist type one? You're very beautiful and you should show off your body more :) x
Thank you, I feel like its not something everyone wants to see, and it can get the wrong kind of attention. I’d prefer to be about the clothes, rather than without. Its something I’d maybe consider doing separately, but I’m not sure x
You've been a massive inspiration to many but I think what your followers are forgetting is that this is your life, and you gotta do what's making you happy. You look amazing no matter what you weigh. Keep on smiling :)
Thank you lovely. :) I’d just like to think theres a lot more to me than being fat. It is my life and a lot more than what I share goes on beneath the surface. People criticising my weight loss doesn’t affect me personally, I just feel disheartened that others think it’s okay to put people down for their body choices. Everyone has their own struggles going on I think we should all just support each other
Heya everyone, Thank you so much for the support messages about my weight loss, it really does mean a lot to me :)
*little life update*
I’m currently in the process of moving house, I’m packing everything away in boxes. I’m moving into a 1960s bungalow that is still stuck in the 1960s and it needs completely renovating (coloured bathroom suite etc). It might be a long while before I can update and post things as much as I’d like but I will try my best. I literally have suitcases full of clothes that wont be opened until the house is done. I’ve had a pretty horrific year so far and things are really looking on the up now :)
I’m sorry If I wont be around as much, but I really will try my best :)
Hi can I please ask, when you had red hair, what hair colour did you use? And what shampoo, conditioner and any other hair products did you use to keep the colour vibrant? Sorry for all the questions hun xo
I started by using La Riche Directions hair dyes, I varied which ones I used but I think the main one I used was called fire. I used a sulphate free shampoo, I think I used tresemme naturals a lot. Tried to wash it in cold water to keep the colour in. I also used Tressa water colour shampoo in fluid fire. After using semi permenants for a while I tried the ellumen goldwell system in RR with the Colour lock that you use after, it did last a bit longer but I wouldnt say permenant. :) Dunno if this helps xxx
But YOU WANT to lose weight and become a skinny girl??? You're trying to? Or still wanna be our inspiration? ❤
Honestly, it means the world to me that I have inspired so many people, it really does. I’ve not always been a confident person and starting this tumblr and all the positive response I have had has helped me so much. But I can’t spend my life trying to please everyone. I do not need to justify any body choices I make to anyone. I’m sorry if people have looked to me for inspiration and I have disappointed them. But I feel pretty disappointed right now, I’ve spent my life being made to feel like an outcast because of how I look, never fitting in. Then I find a group of people who support each other who have all been through the same thing, all I do is lose a couple of stone and you’ve gone all Mean Girls “you can’t sit with us” at me. seriously?
I saw on your insta that you're on a diet and losing weight. You don't want to be a FATshionista anymore????? I think you're cute like a chubby gal.
I’m not on a diet at all :) my life has changed a lot, I’ve had a lot of things happen in my personal life and as a result I’ve lost a bit of weight. I would have to lose a hell of a lot more to consider myself not fat. Regardless I’m still body positive and I think I’d be cute either way :)
I thought this blog/you were fat positive. Sorry to say the weight lose talk is forcing me to unfollow. It is very triggering.
I’m sorry that you feel like that. I am body positive and think that people should love their body whatever size or shape. Body’s change for whatever reason, and I think its not very body positive to deny other people of their current body. There may be slightly less of me but I still have the same beliefs and values